I’m seeing a lot of new people waking up to their spiritual gifts and that is great!
But we need to remember that with these gifts comes responsibility.
Let’s talk about boundaries and getting insight/messages for people … NEVER give anyone psychic information just because you can.
Respect and value their privacy
(this is more important than words can express).
There are many reasons why this is so important. But here’s just a few:
- How would you like someone poking into your business without your permission?
- You never know what someone is going through or what their soul lessons are.
- You’re essentially taking away their power.
You can actually impede and/or undermine their ability to learn the lesson they are currently in (which means it will have to come around again for their soul growth) or they may not be in an emotional place to receive the message which means it would do more harm than good. It might come off as critical instead of helpful. (Like I said, don’t give messages just because you can.)
I know that most of the time people feel the need to give people messages out of a sense of wanting to help…
but a question you can ask yourself is why are you in their energy without their permission in the first place?
I know that alot of times as empaths we can literally feel/ know/sense or get insight without trying… but the lesson for you is to learn when it’s appropriate to share the messages. This is DISCERNMENT for all involved, including yourself.
This is ethics 101 for having intuitive gifts.
I’ve noticed over the years that codependency and empathic/intuitive gifts tend to go hand it hand. It’s important to learn good boundaries for yourself , and with spirit before you start giving messages to others (in my opinion)
Codependency is an unhealthy focus on other people and other people’s problems.
You can read more about that in this blog post: